Mafferik

Eenzaam, gekwetst, single dad (two lovely daughters I co-parent 50/50)

Atletisch, gespierd, slim (op de cliché school manier, dom op veel andere manieren), smiley, verdraagzaam, hopeleslly romantic, blablablablablablablablablablabla

Been there done that qua sex fantasieën. In een taxi? In een kathedraal? Hevige SM? FFM MMF tot 8 mensen? Anal creampie video met 100k+ views op xhamster (ik wel onherkenbaar)? Acanthus? Shivaz? Chemsex? Blind sex? Famous people? Did it all. I always loved to explore, to learn.

I learnt 99% was not worth doing more than once.

I learnt I am into GFE. Kiss. Hug. Smile. I learnt I have no type.
Can enjoy tall small big and any color and race. As long as everything is proportional.

If I must have a fetish, it is eye contact and sound during sex. And clothing. Nothing beats a lady in a fancy dress and with fancy lingerie. And not too skinny. Women, not girls. Fertility vibes.

And definitely into boobs. I used to be against plastic surgercy (I am 43 rolleyes) but I witnessed that any girl can now get at least a C cup and you cannot feel the difference after some months. And apart from me loving to touch and feel and kiss them, in my experience never met a girl who regretted a modern, quality boob job. Anyway. I blblablabla because looking back with hindsight one of the top 3 sex I ever had was with a very skinny no boobs girl.

Not into asses, although licking a girl's ass is in my head a very intimate and loving gesture. But I would never accept a girl licking my ass so yes I am also a hypocrit. I mean not finding very big Nicki Minaj asses beautiful.
I do enjoy anal, but only with very special people. In this Tinder and Redlights era, anal is one of the few real intimacies left.

I will never fuck, even an escort, on a first date. Some youth trauma.
Once at ease, can fuck for hours without orgasm without viagra. Maybe because I am circumsised.

Many FWB to call for free sex. Exaggerated in that (neighbours, hairdressers, colleagues, supermarket cashiers, facebook friends I did not talk to for ten year) disgusting myself. I am not looking for free sex anymore.

Or I pay, redlights or windows or whatever, or I aim for marriage. I sometimes dream about an exotic oldskool arranged marriage with some unknown wacko virgin jehova witness, who approaches a relation with commitment and flexibility and forgiveness instead of insecurity and self-efsteem.

You might not have guessed after reading the above, but I never cheated on any of my girlfriends. Ever. Not sure that I was born as such, as I find 90% of women attractive, but a youth trauma just made me as such.

Back to FWB: some are into FFM which I do like if not sober. My male best friend since 40y I sometimes enjoy MMF with. All other MMF I learnt I am not bisexual, unfortunately.

In short, a weirdo, nowadays mostly into paying prostitutes/escorts for GFE. So a weirdo getting scammed a lot. 75% of girls promising french kisses will not, or not anymore once you paid them.

But unfortunately for my wallet, sometimes there is a real connection. I know some really good prostitutes/escorts. And I will never tell you their names